If you are desperate to lose a friend or a relation, then
lend some bucks to him/her. If you get your
money back and the relation is still intact, then I would say that you are the
luckiest person on earth J
I’ve lost 2 close relations and a close friend after helping
them monetarily when in deep crisis. The end result, I have not only lost part
of the money but also lost three ‘valuable’ relationships. The final score
still stands at 2-1 which means you should never lend money to your own relatives.
This is my honest opinion. There are few more examples but over a period of
time, I have learned my lessons and moreover I am desperately in need of money
now (so no more lending). But I have some peace of mind and Life is beautiful.. once more! J